read part 1: Dealing with Faith Loss: Making Peace with Yourself
Mormon Survival Guide for the Unbeliever
Once you make the decision that the church does not hold the truths that you once ascribed to it, the next logical course of action is for you to leave. But for many that choice may be far away and continued membership may be your best or only option for a while longer.
There are a number of reasons why someone may choose to remain a member for a while.
At the start the most common reason will be that you are still coming to terms with the upheaval in your belief system and still trying to decide what direction to take in your life. It is not good to rush into things. You will note from many others that leaving the church can be a challenge and at many times embarrassing. Be sure you know what you are getting yourself into before you make any life changing decisions.
Perhaps you have friends in the church and you wish to stay for social reasons. Perhaps you come from a Mormon family consisting of either relatives, children, or a spouse, and the difficulties are just to many at this stage.
Perhaps you are not in a position to leave. I've spoken with several people so far who are under age and don't have the option to leave on their own.
Staying in the church as an unbeliever can be challenging and I have listed various situations and some ideas on how to deal with them. I welcome suggestions in the comments and will incorporate any advice that would benefit other readers.
